Dads in Autismland
Dads in Autismland is a heartfelt and candid podcast dedicated to fathers raising children on the autism spectrum. Hosted by Mark de Grasse, a proud dad navigating life in the world of autism, this podcast offers a safe space for dads to share their triumphs, challenges, and personal growth while fostering a supportive community.
Each episode dives into the unique experiences of parenting in "Autismland," featuring real stories from dads, expert interviews, and actionable tips for navigating everything from meltdowns to milestones. Whether you're seeking advice, camaraderie, or just a good laugh, Dads in Autismland provides honest conversations about fatherhood, family, and finding joy in the journey.
Join us weekly as we explore the ups, downs, and everything in between of raising extraordinary children while becoming stronger, more compassionate dads along the way.
Dads in Autismland
Autism Challenges, Christian Values: David Lee’s Story of Faith & Fortitude | Season 2 Episode 26
In this heartfelt episode of Dads In Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with David Lee—professor, podcaster, and father to 9-year-old Eddie, who is on the autism spectrum.
David shares his deeply personal journey, from early moments of uncertainty and shame to finding joy in the smallest victories. Together, they reflect on the unique trials and triumphs of raising an autistic child, discuss the value of faith and community, and explore how big life changes—including a cross-country move—can lead to better care and support.
If you're a dad navigating autism, this episode offers raw honesty, encouragement, and solidarity.
TOPICS:
- The emotional complexity of publicly sharing your child's autism journey
- Dealing with delayed milestones and reframing success as an autism parent
- Managing self-injurious behaviors and the importance of proper medical care
- Why David’s family relocated from West Virginia to Missouri for better autism resources
- The spiritual and emotional resilience built through fatherhood
- Finding small wins: from water bottles to grilled cheese
- The importance of community, grief, and realistic expectations
GUEST LINKS:
David Lee – Popcorn Theology: https://linktr.ee/popcorntheology
ADVERTISING LINKS:
Dads In Autismland Membership: https://dadsinautismland.com/dads-in-autismland-membership-the-pathfinder-collective/
QUOTES:
- "We thought it was just ear infections… but then came the self-injury. That changed everything."
- "Grief, when processed right, can bring clarity—not just sadness."
- "Putting on shoes after a year of refusal? That was our Super Bowl."
- "You’re not alone. There are other dads who will nod and say, ‘Same here, man.’"
- "Moving states felt impossible—until it became absolutely necessary."
ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.
